A New Year plan, Hope and Positivity

Maybe the best way to approach the New Year and new decade is with hope, in spite of all and any evidence to the contrary. To not get caught in the swirl of negativity that seems so predominate.

It has not been an easy year for me, nor for many people I know, and seemingly for the world at large.

Supposedly all of life‘s experiences are opportunities for us to grow, learn “lessons” that make us wiser. If you are like me, you might feel like a slow learner as one life “challenge” piles on another. And looking at the suffering of others one wonders if they feel like they are getting wiser.

I think maybe I need to work harder on shifting perspective.

I use to be a person who accepted that the glass could be both half full AND half empty, and that was okay. A life of social work, assisting and advocating for people with psychiatric disabilities, victims of domestic violence, often young people whose life struggles seemed unfair for their age…..in general seeing the struggles and suffering of others, added to my own increasing health challenges, a decade of watching my mother decline into dementia, and I became a person who not only saw the glass as half empty, but it was draining. Then there’s the “too much info about others lives and the world” via the Internet.

I’m married to a person who sees the glass half full regardless of any evidence to the contrary. Though sometimes irritating, it can also be refreshing!

A frequent suggestion is to make a gratitude list to see the good in life. This may help, it is hard sometimes to recognize the gifts and blessings and doing so consciously is a good strategy, but perhaps we should include  gratitude in the mundane, that which we hardly think to feel grateful for and may even complain about. This too can help shift perspective – such as being grateful for cleaning the toilet, because it means we have indoor plumbing, or washing the dishes because it means we had food to make into a meal, even grateful for bills to pay – the power bill, the doctor, the mechanic, etc. because it means we have these services available to us.  But this list is based on seeing what we have compared to those who do not have.  A helpful tool, but there’s more to shifting perspective.

I share with you this article from the Wall Street Journal about research into how powerful negativity is compared to positivity. The evidence for this makes one realize, to overcome negativity we must be a warriors, have a strategy, and be vigilant. Though I don’t agree with a few points in the article, I found it good food for thought as we begin a new year, and it offers a few suggestions for being that warrior. Here’s the link: For The New Year, Just Say No To Negativity

More food for thought the is the concept of miracles. Learning to see miracles in every day life, to recognize those moments, events, or people who seem to appear or happen out of no where, yet change our lives in a positive way…..paying attention to THAT could really shift perspective! I’m reading a book about miracles, and thinking maybe we all need to understand better how to see them and identify them.

I do not know an easy fix nor have a clear plan for shifting perspective, for empowering positivity, I suspect it’s like most things in life….just begin and the way will become clearer.

So with my favorite warrior, Tree Fairy (she reappeared yesterday after a year. A gentle soul, but a fierce warrior concerning her trees and all of Nature), I wish for you a heart filled with love, peace of mind, and much hope in this year ahead.

A day for giving thanks

Any study of American history uncovers the myths many of us were taught as the reason for celebrating Thanksgiving. There was no peaceful feast between “Pilgrims” and local tribes. History reports near the date of the so called “first Thanksgiving” there was actually a massacre of native people. Thus, to many Native Americans it is a day of mourning.

However, a day for giving thanks, to show gratitude for the harvest, is a tradition celebrated by the tribes of North America (long before the arrival of the Puritans, who did not dress in black clothes with big buckles). Many cultures around the world have such a day at the end of the harvest season.

I have long considered Thanksgiving a day of gratitude, to go deeper into an appreciation and acknowledgement for the blessings and gifts in our lives.

My favorite aspect of Thanksgiving is the peacefulness, often felt as people slow down a bit. I love being out in Nature (a persistent cold and predicted below freezing temperatures might keep my Nature appreciation through the windows this year).

Several years ago we had our last Thanksgiving with local family members before their lives began in another state. It included a quiet walk by a river and a shared meal. A memory I cherish. Another special Thanksgiving memory occurred after several years of an illness that kept me from eating solid foods. Around Thanksgiving I began to “recover” and made a veggie soup, filled thermoses, and walked into an empty park with Mike to a bench over looking the salt water. One of best Thanksgiving meals and memories ever!

If Thanksgiving is a busy time for you, perhaps take a few moments to stop and think what you are most grateful for. Perhaps create new traditions, ones that might honor those for whom this day in history is not one to be celebrated. For example, a good friend of mine will be visiting a local tribal museum.

My gratitudes? I am grateful for the unconditional love and support of my husband, grateful for the land where I’m fortunate enough to live, for the spiritual guidance in my life, for long time and new friends, and at this very challenging time for me, for the constant companionship of a furry buddy who sticks by me even in my darkest hours. Blessings come in all shapes, sizes and species!

May your Thanksgiving be filled with love and blessings, and perhaps 2-legged or 4-legged friends.


related past posts:

Thanksgiving Yummies


Gratitude & Grace

Thanksgiving II

Recipe For Winter


While many in the US and elsewhere prepare for the European/Celtic origin base celebrations of All Hallow’s Eve (Halloween), the Day of the Dead, or Samhain (pagan celebration for the end of the harvest), in India and elsewhere Hindu cultures (and in some places Buddhists join in) will be celebrating Diwali, or Dipawali, whose name comes from the row (avali) of clay lamps (deepa) lit outside homes during the festival to symbolize the Divine light and inner light that protects us from demons, or spiritual darkness. In Nepal Diwali is called Tihar.

This year Diwali begins on October 25, the primary day of celebration is October 27.  It is a holiday of great celebration, of cleaning houses, throwing out old and broken items, visiting friends and relatives with food and gifts, lighting lamps, fireworks….truly a life affirming celebration!

For this first day of Diwali, my little altar is a candle for each day of Diwali, a small oil lamp, flowers and the evergreen herb, rosemary.

Often called the Festival of Lights, Diwali is a five day celebration, each day having specific events and celebrations according to stories of good triumphing over evil, stories found in the ancient Sanskrit writings. In Nepal, each of the five days honors a different animal. Many of the stories celebrated during Diwali come from the epic tales of Rama or Krishna, Divine beings whose life trials of overcoming evil forces and demons through their moral courage and spiritual attunement, as well as their kindness to others, have been guidelines for living a moral and spiritual life for eons. Which tales are celebrated on which days varies from region to region in India. Diwali is a complex holiday! Below are a few links to read more about it.

National Geographic article on Diwali

Diwali in Nepal

Diwali on Wikipedia

I’ve always been drawn to this celebration of light, of overcoming demons, of good winning over evil, which is combined with gratefulness for the harvest. It is a uplifting national holiday in India and Nepal and among Hindus everywhere. As the days become shorter and darker, and as my life at this time is full of unknowns, I struggle with my own dark thoughts and demons and want to embrace the joyousness of this celebration of the Divine Light in life and in each of us!

Happy Diwali!  Let there be Light, inner and outer!

Here are some links to past posts celebrating this time of year:

Festivals & Fruit Crumble

The Driver – A true Halloween story!

A Pumpkin by any other name

What Scares You?



we took a one day vacation early in Sept. It was wonderful. It wasn’t enough.


Back in July, with a diagnosis of a cancer reoccurrence, I wrote in my last blog post I wasn’t sure if I would be writing on my blog any more – if, when, or about what.

I still wonder.

But I did write a page, which you can chose to read or not, which is why it is not a post. I do not want this blog to become yet another  “cancer blog”. The page is me mulling over my observations of how others respond when they learn I have cancer. Maybe you will find it helpful, not for me necessarily, but for anyone you may know who has cancer or any other serious health challenge, or is going through another type of life trauma.

It is a long piece and includes my “cancer story”. Hopefully it has a bit of wry humor.

Here is the link to the page: Mulling Over Life With Cancer

It begins with me staring out the window at a flicker. I hope if I do write again I get back to my ‘roots’ here on my blog and write about Nature. In the meantime, as I wrote below, you are invited to explore the menu on the right to read past posts – 8 years of – wanderings, stories, thoughts, my “mullings” over life, and my love of Nature.  Some are informative, some entertaining,  I hope you find a few of interest to you.  There are also pages to be checked out, see the menu at the top.

Love to you.


And now a word from the author….

This blog was born in 2006 during a time I was ill with some unknown digestive condition that caused me to be nauseous 24/7, eventually and tentatively diagnosed as gastroparesis. Unable to eat solid foods, I lost weight, was no longer able to work, and basically dropped out of the world at large. For six months I traveled to doctors in Seattle for multiple tests and procedures. After being told I might need to be on a feeding tube, I went home. For two years I was home in the woods  except when going to see a variety of non-allopathic health care people and healers. My husband attained sainthood during this time and life changed dramatically for me, having always worked full time in professions that involved helping others. Now I needed to help myself.

Having written articles occasionally throughout my adult life, several months before getting sick I had begun to write more often and had several articles published. I’d hoped to continue writing more. While so ill, I looked for a format to continue writing and share photos of the natural world around me.  Almost by accident I clicked a button on my Apple computer one day and found myself creating a web site.  Mostly for friends and mom (who was understandably worried about me), I wanted people to know I was some how surviving.  Writing, photography, and Mother Nature were all part of my healing, as were the colorful “color doodles” I began to draw. (A turning point in my recovery was also reading the book “The Divide Mind” by Dr John Sarno).

In sharing this story over the years, I’ve met several very successful (in that they actually make money at it!) artists who told me they began their creative life as part of healing from a health crisis.  I believe creativity is a critical aspect of healing for everyone. Everyone has a creative muse in them, perhaps for some of us other aspects of life have to slip away before we see our muse.

After Apple discontinued their server service, I lost my original web site, switched to Google’s Blog Spot, then, in 2011, settled here on Word Press.  Though my initial intention was to share, through photos, essays and stories, the beauty and fascination of Nature, over the years, especially through the years of caring for my Mom as she declined with Alzheimer’s, the writing expanded into posts about people and life.  No specific direction, just whatever moved me to write words and share ideas.

Again I found creative writing to be a balm for the emotional roller coaster and physically exhausting demands of watching my mom slip further into dementia. Too often I felt I was in quick sand, anticipating, but never knowing, when the next crisis would occur, while at the same time staying present with mom and her care needs. It was a time when I lost touch with many aspects of my life, but by occasionally writing I found my grounding. (a poignant piece from this period of time is The Girl In The Turquoise Swimsuit)

I now face a reoccurrence of cancer, my fourth go around with the big “C”, and I find myself once again withdrawing from the surrounding world. This time that world includes the Internet, especially social media (Facebook and Instagram). Facebook has been a way to stay in touch with those far away, some of whom do not have access to email but occasionally can get on facebook, so I may go back, and Instagram has been a fun way to share with other nature lovers and creative types photos and creative projects (such as the Flora Mandalas I began to make after mom died and I had the last cancer episode)

Not certain of the role this blog  now plays in my life, or in the life of readers, I wonder if I have anything more to share of value to others.  Readership has grown, many people who read the posts I do not know personally (but deeply appreciate they’re taking the time to read!) For this reason I will not be writing about what is in store for me in the immediate future. If some where down the time line of my life some great inspiration, funny story, or useful tidbit occurs to me that might help, inspire or amuse others I’ll give it a go. I suspect I won’t be able to stop myself! 🙂

Think of me gently in your prayers, thoughts or visualizations and enjoy my previous posts, there are 174 of them, plus 30  pages (see menu above for pages) to explore! And thank you for wandering with me throughout these years on Huckleberry Wanderings!

Here are just a few of the topics you can search for a blog topic – see the menu list to the right to click and explore a topic. And don’t forget teacups and pin cushions because it is good to remember the every day pleasures of life!

Be the change you want ~ it’s a good day to start

“Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it. Mark Twain

This is for those not feeling patriotic today due to the behavior and hypocrisy of our government toward….well pretty much everyone – those living on this beautiful land before the rest of us immigrated here, people of color, women, etc. A government bend on continuing to exploit Mother Nature. It certainly dampens a celebratory mood to read the news. If this United States experiment is a work in progress, it’s difficult to see the progress.

Look for it. There are good Americans doing good and great things, for other people, for the environment, both here and abroad. We can all be that kind of American in our lives…therein lies the change.

Patriotism is not nationalism. It is a concern for one’s country, for it’s well being. That implies responsibility, not passivity.

Spend the day defining, living, what you want to create in this land. Write it down. Create action steps…helping a neighbor? Calling a friend in need? Donating food, time, money? Becoming a political advocate? Creation and change comes when we define and live what we want, not focus on what we don’t want. Be it small or big, look at how you might be “feeding” the divisiveness, the bigotry, the hatred. Do you embrace someone of a different religion, or skin color, yet speak negatively of someone of a different political party? How is that different?

“Be the change you want” not just a bumper sticker, it’s a profound truth that requires self reflection, that requires looking at our own words, actions, most of all, our thoughts.

“Freedom makes a huge requirement of every human being. With freedom comes responsibility. For the person who is unwilling to grow up, the person who does not want to carry his own weight, this is a frightening prospect.” Eleanor Roosevelt

Therein lies the way for our country to represent the values and ideals I believe most of us uphold.

“We, the People, recognize that we have responsibilities as well as rights; that our destinies are bound together; that a freedom which only asks what’s in it for me, a freedom without a commitment to others, a freedom without love or charity or duty or patriotism, is unworthy of our founding ideals, and those who died in their defense.” Barack Obama

(It is not my habit to do 2 posts back to back, but I wrote this after reading on social media many people’s disillusionment with celebrating July 4th. I understand that, and feel it myself, but the negativity expressed, i.e. a parade float exhibiting a coffin symbolizing the death of our constitution, is disturbing. Our individual lives are powerful, how do we choose to use that power?)

Independence as defined by a founding mother!

“If particular care and attention is not paid to the ladies, we are determined to foment a rebellion, and will not hold ourselves bound by any laws in which we have no voice, or representation.” Abigail Adams

These words (and many more!) were written by Abigail Adams to her husband John Adams when the Second Continental Congress was formed and its (all male) members debated and deliberated over the writing of the Declaration of Independence. She argued in many letters to her husband that the creation of a new form of government was a chance to make the legal status of women equal to that of men.

The quote above is prefaced by “remember the ladies, and be more generous and favorable to them than your ancestors. Do not put such unlimited power into the hands of the Husbands. Remember all Men would be tyrants if they could…..”

Abigail’s influence and advise to her husband during the Continental Congress, as well being both a wife to one President and mother to another, resulted in some historians referring to her as the “Founding Mother” of the United States. But her ideas of freedom and independence were more inclusive than those of the founding fathers.  Not only did she advocate for women’s rights, she also opposed slavery, stating in a letter that most Virginians, as slave owners, did not have such a passion for Liberty “as they claimed they did, since they deprive their fellow Creatures” of freedom.

When a freed young black man came to her home in Philadelphia asking for her help in learning to read and write she helped him enroll in a school.  Her response to a complaining neighbor was:

[he is] “a Freeman as much as any of the young Men and merely because his Face is Black, is he to be denied instruction? How is he to be qualified to procure a livelihood? … I have not thought it any disgrace to my self to take him into my parlor and teach him both to read and write.”

She also wanted women to be given equal opportunities for education:

“If we mean to have heroes, statesmen and philosophers, we should have learned women.

“you need not be told how much female education is neglected, nor how fashionable it has been to ridicule female learning.”

painting by Gilbert Stuart

She continued to be John Adam’s closest advisor and confidant through his presidency and in her later years continued her political interests by following the career of her son, John Quincy Adams,  though she did not live to see him become president.

Oh Abigail, you were ahead of your times, but your spirit lived on in the early suffragettes, and lives on in the wave of women who have risen to the occasion to run for political offices locally and nationally in the past few years. Called “Mrs President” (meant to be derogatory) by a journalist at the time for her “meddling” in her husband’s presidency, perhaps in the near future that title will be carried by someone with pride as women gain more representation, a dream of her’s over 200 years ago!

Happy Independence Day for all…….regardless of gender, race, religion, nationality!

A little floral color for your 4th

Solstice Inspired

It takes 12 moon cycles for our little planet to cycle once around the sun. The oldest human celebrations known have celebrated that feat quarterly – two Solstices and two Equinoxes. These are celebrations of gratitude that the sun “returns”.

Of course we all know the sun doesn’t go anywhere, we’re the ones moving about, but our ancestors weren’t so sure. Summer Solstice is the precise moment when the tilt of the earth on its axis puts the Northern hemisphere as close to the sun as it’s going to be, and the Southern Hemisphere the furthest (Winter Solstice there). In December the roles reverse.

Ra (Egyptian), Lord Surya (Hindu), Helios (Greek), Khors (Slavic), Sunna (Nordic), Sol (Roman), are but a few of the deity names given to the sun, thought to either be a god, or ruled by a god.

Throughout time, no matter how crazy we’re behaving here on our little spaceship, the sun has been constant, while life here is ever-changing. No wonder it has been consistently cerebrated!

☀️Solstice cheer!

past Summer Solstice post:

Evening Light & Tagore On This Solistice Eve


Rose therapy


Been six weeks since I broke my wrist. I lost some opportunities for harvesting certain medicinal plants I like to use that peaked during that time period, but today I celebrated new hand movement by harvesting roses for drying and making rose petal infused honey.

Yesterday I got the last of the three pins out that held the bone together while it started to heal. There’s still swelling, pain and a recovery road ahead to regain use of my wrist and strengthen my hand, but the surgeon was impressed. I was ahead of schedule on bone regeneration.

He’s a cool doc, he knows nutritional supplements help, but he doesn’t know the effects plant medicine has on bone healing and tissue recover. The first major task for the fingers on my weaken right hand today was pulling the silky smooth petals off while I inhaled the strong rose fragrance. Excellent rehab therapy!🌹

Wish I could post here the heady intoxication of sitting with a basket  full of scented roses! If you harvest your own, find full body scented ones, old bush roses are often the best, that are free of all sprays, road pollution etc, and harvest in the morning, choosing the ones freshly opened.

The Doctrine of Signatures states plants resembling certain body parts can be used to heal those body parts. What do you think? Can roses, the flower of love, with its heart shaped petals, heal hearts? Roses, which are astringent, do have medicinal properties, but I’d say it’s the aromatherapy that gladdens a sad heart!

So what is good for bone building?

Many vitamins and minerals are needed for bone growth.  Calcium, magnesium, boron, vitamin D 2, folate, zinc, selenium, copper, manganese, vitamin K and vitamins B2 and B6, are primary ones.

A number of herbs help with bone growth. Good ones are stinging nettle, horsetail, oatstraw, and Solomon’s Seal.  Because I want to take a lot and know they  are high quality herbs, I take the herbs in capsule form from a company that makes excellent products and drink a cold infusion tea of Solomon’s Seal daily.  I also used a comfrey and plantain salve on my arm above and below the brace for several weeks, and consulted with a traditional homeopathic practitioner for the right homeopathic remedies for my healing. Comfrey, called knit bone, will heal bones very well, there is some concern of it’s affect on liver so using topically is safest.

More about roses:

Rose Survivors


Earth Day, Earth Love

Today is Earth Day, the beginning of Earth Week, time to roll up our collective sleeves, stop talking, and start doing life differently on this planet. It’s a cliché, but never the less true, there’s not another one like it. We seem designed to live best on this planet, at least the way it was when we first arrived.      

Mike and I have taken steps to live a better, earth friendly life. Some of these steps are steps back to the way we use to do things, as explained in my last post: “Spring cleaning our Mother Earth”.  This post is an update with more details of our action steps thus far.  I hope you will read on and find what I share helpful, it’s my long love letter of suggestions for living an earth healing life.  

What motivates “oldsters” like us to change our ways?  I am reminded of when I lived in rentals in my 20s.  We always left the places we rented in better shape when we moved out then they were when we moved in.  The generation I am part of has not done so to our Earth home, where we are only “renters”, temporary residents. We will be gone, but other’s will be living here. I feel an obligation, and desire, to make an effort, however small, to leave it better than it is now.  Everyone who makes an effort to do so makes a difference.      

Our immediate goal has been to bring no new plastic into our lives when and if there is an alternative and choice. The areas of our life where we don’t have an obvious choice (yet) mostly have to do with health care….i.e. supplements we can’t find in glass jars or prescription medications.      

The plastic recycling “fad” worked at getting people to recycle, but the actual recycling industry that was supposed to develop to recycle and reuse the waste products being recycled did not keep up with the increased amount of plastic waste generated. It’s an industry that never developed, mostly because there is more money in generating and promoting new plastic and other human made, non-biodegradable materials.      

Getty Images

Here are three articles on how the recycling of plastic has failed, you can find many more if you do an internet search:
1. China has refused to recycle the west’s plastic. Now what?
2. The recycling game is rigged against you
3. Why the world’s recycling system stopped working

In our personal efforts to reduce we are not getting rid of plastic we already have in our lives just because it’s plastic. (See my previous post for the 5 Rs – refuse, repair, reuse, recycle and rot).  If it is reusable plastic, the longer we keep it and use it the longer it stays out of a landfill or out of a broken recycling system. All plastic, even if re-manufactured or reused, eventually ends up there…..”there” being incinerated garbage that causes toxic air pollution, or dumps where it is buried in the earth, or dumped into our water systems – rivers, oceans. Plastics are made from toxins, they take literally forever to break down, they break down into toxins.

So how have we reduced our plastic intake, and waste in general?   We’ve researched packaged items we buy and either replaced them with non-package alternatives (i.e. making our own) or chosen brands with less toxic packaging (non-plastic package). There are still some products packaged in plastic we buy, it takes time to find alternatives.      

Glass and paper/cardboard also require energy resources and chemicals to make. Paper, unless made of some easily renewable resource such as bamboo or recycled paper, uses trees that are much needed to sustain life on this planet.  No packaging is best when possible. However, glass is an alternative to plastic because it is more often reusable and more often recycled. Paper and cardboard can be recycled and if instead are put in a landfill, break down quicker. Most brown paper/cardboard is made from recycled paper.  We have found packaging made from recycled paper cardboard or from a cellulose (wood) material that looks like cellophane. We read the labels of products to see what the box or bag is made of. Be wary…often what looks like cellophane is a plastic product.  Plastic comes in many forms and goes by many names.      

How we’ve reduced packaging

in the frig: carrots in cloth bag, homemade almond milk, peas kept fresh in a vintage glass storage container.


In the kitchen we stopped buying pre-packaged products when possible, such as some Bob’s Red Mill products, we were using, opting instead for oats in bulk (as we use to do) and oat flour in brown paper bags by Fairhaven Mills. (I hope Bob’s Red Mill might change some of their packaging, as it’s a good company.) We already buy all our nuts and grains in bulk.      

Some examples of making it ourselves:

I make almond milk….no more coconut milk on Mike’s cereal, he loves the almond milk and it is more economical than any packaged milk-substitute. Easy, delicious, no packaging. Will be experimenting with other nut milks as well as oat milk. (see almond milk recipe below.)      

Homemade salsa…..for when Mike has that salsa craving. I like my homemade better. It takes about 10 minutes, longer if you roast tomatoes first, which makes for a richer taste. No more plastic tubs.      

I’ve made vinegar from apple skins and cores, it’s still in process. We mostly use vinegar in cleaning and it comes in plastic jugs, so finding a better way for cheap vinegar is important. Good quality vinegar for food use can be bought in glass jars.      

Other package reductions:

We use cloth bags for all our veggies and bulk foods, i.e. grains, nuts, spices and herbs. Also we take cloth bags into other stores, not just grocery stores. No more plastic bags. Period.      

When buying fish we ask that they only wrap it in paper, no plastic bag please. No problem.      

We’ve given up some treats……for example frozen blueberries in the “off season” in plastic bags, but apples in our oatmeal and muffins are just as good and we will really be excited for blueberry season when we can pick our own or buy in bulk (hopefully). In the big picture, we both agree the things we’ve given up are easier to live without than the stress of contributing more plastic to the waste stream.

There are food products, especially ones bought for Abby, who is an elderly dog requiring a special homemade diet, we still buy in plastic packaging, but it is less and less as we find other options.      

Food storage: We’ve always used/had glass containers for leftovers, etc. they mostly have plastic lids, if I was purchasing new I’d find ones with glass lids, after first looking for them in second hand stores. We use glass to store produce like peas or other small items often bought and stored in plastic bags. Other produce goes into produce drawer or stays in cloth bags in frig. I’ve read damping a cloth bag will help keep certain items fresher, I haven’t needed to try this.  

a pantry shelf with jars of bulk purchased items and pasta in cardboard box.

Glass jars are fantastic, save jars from any products you buy and reuse for storage of bulk items, homemade items, left overs.

I made beeswax infused cloth as an alternative to plastic wrap, but I’ve never used plastic wrap so haven’t used it yet. You can buy beeswax cloth ready made for wrapping sandwiches, covering bowls, etc. I cover bowls with plates.  It’s pricy, but it lasts a long time and has many uses.    

Dish washing: We wash dishes with Castile bar soap, and really like it! Gets everything clean even with our hard well water. For back up when we have a full sink load plus, i.e. when company is over, we keep a backup, liquid dish soap bought in bulk in our own reusable bottle. No more new plastic dish soap bottles.      

bees wax cloth, which molds to sandwiches, bowls, etc. and can be wiped clean. Scrub brushes. dish rags

We stopped using sponges that need throwing away and are made of toxic materials and glues (and are havens for bacteria). We use dish rags to wash dishes, throw them in the laundry to keep clean, they’re easy to use with the Castile bar soap when washing dishes. A wood handled scrub brush gets stuck on food off, but conscientious soaking helps avoid the stuck stuff. Our scrub brush is one we had, it has plastic bristles, if we need to replace we’ll get a natural bristle one. First “rule”: use what you have!  

Laundry soap – switched to a brand available in bulk, experimented with making laundry soap with borax, Castile soap, and washing soda, still working on that! Liked what I made, and it cleaned well, but not sure it got all rinsed out, even with vinegar added. Those without hard well water would find homemade laundry soap a good alternative to plastic packaged soap. At least you can buy it in bulk, reducing plastic bottles.    

Bathroom products. We decided to purchase a case of toilet paper from a company that makes both bamboo toilet paper and toilet paper made from 100% recycled paper that comes in recycled paper wrappers – not plastic. The company donates 50% of their profits to programs that provide toilets to people and places in the world that need them. I did a lot of research on this. In the past recycled paper toilet paper did not work for me, too rough. We’re really happy with this company’s product. I’m a little dubious of all the bamboo growing, so we chose the recycled paper. Yes, it is shipped to us, as it’s not sold in stores, but toilet paper in a store is also shipped. A case of 48 will last us a long time! And the wrappers are cute! I encourage you to check out their web site: Who Give’s A Crap, because they do!

The Castile soaps we buy come in paper wrappers. The soap we’ve always bought for personal use is Sappho Soap, made in Oregon, does not come in wrappers. Borax and Washing Soda are used in many homemade cleaning products. That’s the toilet paper we like!

Kleenex tissues are for cold season, if at all. We both have used handkerchiefs in the past and just got lazy. Use what you have, and we have them, but if you need to purchase handkerchiefs they’re a cheap long term investment and will save a lot of trees, plus eliminate any plastic in the packaging of Kleenex tissues.      

I tried a shampoo bar, it felt like it left a residue, though I’ve read that after you do it several weeks that goes away, it’s the interaction between the commercial shampoos and the bar shampoo. Buying shampoo in bulk in reusable container for now, but I’ve never liked all the ingredients in most shampoos so will give the bar shampoos another try. Have a few different ones to try and if they don’t work they can be used as body soap. Bulk liquids come in plastic bottles that still have to be disposed of by the store, so when possible we still try to find alternatives to packaged products.      

The bamboo handle toothbrush I bought was great at cleaning my teeth, but the wider handle caused some irritation inside my mouth in one place, so hope to find a narrower handle brand. I’ve ordered another one to try.

I bought several toothpastes not in plastic tubes, and like them. We both have had a lot of dental work and do use a toothpaste with fluoride, so for now, sadly, will stick to our old brand in the throw away, non-reusable tube for at least one brushing a day. Remember I said the places in our lives where obvious choices and alternatives haven’t been found are in health care. If you do not use fluoride toothpaste there are great choices of pastes in non-plastic tubes or jars, tooth powders, or you can easily make your own! (Did you know many toothpastes have polyethylene micro beads in them, a major ocean pollution that threatens ocean life?)      

I bought a dental floss, Eco-dent, that comes in a cardboard box with only a small plastic spool, but that spool is the type of thing that ends up in landfills and the ocean. I have read of a floss in a glass container with refillable floss, but have yet to find a place to purchase it.      

Mike likes to use a mouth wash…..so I found a recipe and made him one! One more plastic bottle gone from our lives!      

On the road. We do eat out when “on the road” to appointments, etc. Many soups from our favorite soup places come with plastic lids and I’ve spoken to stores about this as there are soup cups available with cardboard lids, some places we go use them. We plan to try bringing our own containers and see how stores feel about that. We carry silverware and cloth napkins in the car in a picnic bag. No need for throw away plastic ware or paper napkins. (We still have plastic ware and include it in our car stash, then wash and reuse)      

Now – about doggy bags…..when what we have are gone, no more. The wrapping on the toilet paper we now use, cut in half, is adequate for the little doggy poop we need to clean up when in parks, there’s always a trash can nearby. If there isn’t we can have a container in the car to take it home. It has always bothered me to use a single-use plastic bag to move doggy poop from the ground to the trash. There are definitely alternatives! If you need a bag you might consider non-bleached wax paper lunch bags. Or if you still purchase products in plastic, reuse the plastic for doggy poop, not the best solution, but reusing before tossing is better than a single-use plastic bag.    

It’s not about being the perfect zero-waste person/family/household, though there are some fascinating blogs and web sites about people who are nearly so. It’s not possible for most people. It’s about doing the best you can to make choices that are earth friendly, because even small steps are a big deal. If millions, billions, of people reduced their waste by even 1% that is A LOT! 2% is better, and doable. If only thousands reduce it by 10% it will be a significant impact. There is no such thing as “my little efforts don’t count”. There was life before everything was wrapped in plastic, many us ‘oldsters” are best at remembering and reteaching what that was like (the history and promotion of plastic is interesting, and scary. Campaigns to promote a “need” for plastic where there was no need were very methodically carried out and still are). There are alternatives for most things.    

It’s fun, and economical. I had fabric to make our bags, we had the dish cloths, a scrub brush, etc. If you do buy items to enable you to use less throw away plastic, it’s cost effective over time because you will use what you buy a long time. We’ve used up old products in plastic bottles we won’t purchase any more and find buying bulk is cheaper and making our own when we can even cheaper.  

If you’ve read this far, thank you, hope it has inspired you to take those small steps. Make every day a Earth-loving and caring day in your home.

Today is also the birthday anniversary of John Muir, naturalist, author, environmentalist, who had many wise things to say about our relationship to Nature, including this:

There is a love of wild Nature in everybody, an ancient mother-love ever showing itself whether recognized or not, and however covered by cares and duties.” ― John Muir

Let us begin to treat the earth as a mother would a child, nurturing it, caring for it, helping it to be its best…..for it is also our mother, nurturing us, giving us life, and can not do so when it is sick.